Boyfriend's Morning Routine Wakes Up Girlfriend, Girlfriend Sleeps In Guest Room, Boyfriend Complains

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mattstaff
May 22, 2021 6:00 PM EDT

It sounds like this dude is far out there when it comes to the regimen he's adopted to be successful. Like, my dude, you probably don't need to get up at 3AM to seize the day. But if you insist on doing something like that, you should probably plan for your partner who you share a room with to be a little bit perturbed. It seems like these two need to have a clarifying conversation where they're able to work out some way to meet in the middle. 

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  • 01
    Font - AITA for sleeping in the guest bedroom because of my boyfriend's annoying morning schedule Not the A-hole Hi all, I (23F) moved in with my boyfriend (28M) of two years at the start of March and so far it hasn't been too good. This is due to the fact that my boyfriend has started a new morning schedule where he wakes up at 3am then goes to the gym for an hour or two. He doesn't need to wake up THAT early because he usually starts work around noon. He explained to me that all of the "big CE
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    Font - The problem is that when he gets up, he also wakes me up because of his alarm and then he is SO LOUD when he is getting ready. Literally zero consideration for me. I don't fall back asleep until he leaves the house and then when he comes back I get woken up again when he comes into the bedroom to change his clothes. Sometimes he purposely wakes me up because "he's bored."
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    Font - Having my sleep being constantly disrupted every single night is getting on my nerves big time. I've told him plenty of times that he needs to be quieter in the mornings but he doesn't seem to really care. So last night I went into the guestroom to sleep - as soon as I did this he started an argument about how dramatic I am and said he doesn't have to cater to me because it's his house. I explained to him that the only way I will get a good quality sleep is if l'm in a separate bedroom bu
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    Font - coffee_u • 1d Partassipant [1] 1 Award I'm an early morning riser, and my wife is a light sleeper, so l'm more like your BF than you. You are NTA. You deserve some consideration. While don't get up at 3am, I get up at 5:30 to go running, and I sleep with my partner. My partner is a light sleeper. My alarm is my watch, but I set it for vibrate only. The previous night, I have all of my running clothes already set aside in the bathroom, so once l'm awake, I just quietly leave the bedroom (n
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    Font - AllTheT1 • 1d 1 Award NTA- Move back out. He isn't ready to cohabitate if he can't be considerate of others. He isn't ready to be a partner sharing a home if he brings up it's "his house" to get his way and stomp over your well being. Also if someone woke me up because they're bored, I would find that justifiable of committing murder. G Reply 1 540 3 ...
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    Font - 2 Awards Dude. A couple things stick out to me: 1. he feels disrespected by actions you've taken to get good sleep which you've frequently communicated as a concern and that he dismisses 2. he pulled the "this is my house" card to justify not having to respect reasonable requests to adjust habits that impact shared sleeping/living spaces 3. he thinks you sleeping in the guest room undermines your entire relationship to the extent where he doesn't consider you living together if you aren't
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    Rectangle - jillieboobean • 1d 3 2 Awards Pick up those red flags, darling, and be grateful he dropped them before you wasted any more of your life with someone that doesn't respect you.
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    Rectangle - urmomswifey • 1d NTA. Please go back to your parents or move somewhere else. This man does not love you. He's selfish and incredibly misguided if he thinks waking up at 3am is going to make him special. G Reply 4 84 3 ...
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    Font - squirrelsareevil2479 · 1d Certified Proctologist [21] 1 Award NTA. He says you might as well go home to your parents if you don't do exactly what he wants no matter how much he inconveniences you. I would take his advice. He has no respect for you and no consideration for you at all. You are only worth while as long as you please him. Get out of there now. 6 Reply 1 164 3 ...
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    Rectangle - HatsAndTopcoats · 1d Certified Proctologist [24] 3 26 Awards This is not how someone acts who respects you, cares about your feelings, and wants to make sure that your needs are met. You deserve a partner, not someone who sees you as an accessory that exists to please him. I am positive that this sleep issue is not the only way in which he shows that he is selfish and inconsiderate. You deserve better than this. He wants you to think that this is normal and acceptable. It is not. He
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  • 11
    Font - NTA. I'd reconsider the entire relationship. Do NOT have a child with this man. He clearly only cares about himself. I admire your restraint bc I would have ended him the first time he woke me up bc he was "bored". G Reply 1 192 3 ...
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    Font - alextrande · 1d NTA If he's not willing to bend your way, you really should reconsider moving in together 100%. Either he tries to be more quiet and let you sleep, you sleep in the guest room or you move away from "his house". Smh. No matter who paid the house, if y'all move in together, it should be both of your home. G Reply ↑ 27 3 ...
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  • 13
    Font - EvilMeowMonster · 1d NTA. He's being super inconsiderate and rude to you. G Reply 4 20 3 +
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  • 14
    Font - Ghargoyle · 1d NTA There's no rule that couples need to share a bed. 6 Reply 4 18 3 ...
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  • 15
    Font - NTA. He's being disrespectful, inconsiderate, and rude. G Reply + ...
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    Font - laserswan • 20h You know what else all the big CEO are? Divorced. NTA. Throw the whole man away, go home, sleep for 10 hours. G Reply + ...
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